how people think...

its amazing how people think. relationships should be the greatest unsolved mystery in the world. theres nothing thats more complex. wer it should be simple. ego plays wierd games on all of us. interesting games. that part of the brain should be really interesting to decipher. probably possessiveness is the root? but then without some amount of possessiveness, love will exist only in the world of sages. where 'let go' is the magic mantra. but mere mortals like me tend to hold on to love like dear life. which eventually leads to a lot of pain. and an inevitable heartbreak. but cant help feel that its this inherent trait in most of us that makes us human. unlike the infallible image that we have of god. or watever it is, however u wanna call it. and we keep lamenting about the way relationships end up. what an interesting design. deep down, i guess we are all aware of the inevitabilities.its all kinda romantic if you think abt it, walking like fools into pain and then crying abt it. but then, the longing is what moves the world. yes. the results of the selfless something inside. u ask me, there is nothing more selfless than love. too see a smile is worth all the pain, all the torture. hmmm....